3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them.
8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) 10 and find out what pleases the Lord. 11Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. 13 But everything exposed by the light becomes visible—and everything that is illuminated becomes a light. 14 This is why it is said:
“Wake up, sleeper,
rise from the dead,
and Christ will shine on you.”
15 Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18 Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Instructions for Christian Households
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
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Days 1&2: Read the chapter. Journal a personal response to or summary of the chapter. Identify one or two key verses, and write them out.
This chapter is so practical: "Follow God's example... and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us..." Amazing. So easy to understand! I love the Bible!
v.21 - Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
V.10 - and find out what pleases the Lord.
Day 3: Read yesterday’s key verses out loud. Journal why you chose them. Rewrite them.
v.21 - This verse is the foundation of what Christian community is. It is what I live in right now. It is something I'm interested in learning more about. This is why I chose it.
v.21 Rewritten: out of your love for Christ, always consider the needs of others first.
v.10 - For some reason I feel like there is adventure behind this verse. It makes me think of embarking on a trip to become closer to God in my heart. Like Indiana Jones, seeking in various places to find what is most valued in the long run.
v.10 Rewritten: search for what interests the Lord.
Days 4&5: Read the key verses again, and then the whole chapter. Journal a personal response or prayer that includes your measurable response to the passage.
This chapter is really tough to deal with. I find myself constantly being challenged by it in everything that I say. Is this story actually worth mentioning? Did I really have to say that joke? This chapter is a filter and it filters even the finest of blemishes. I'm glad that I'm being challenged in this way though because it is helping me put that old man to death more and more.